Dear Hesitant Creative Like Me,

"What if it doesn't work?"

'What if I invest all this time into my idea that I'm really excited about, but it doesn't get the feedback or engagement I would like?'
'Would all my time invested matter?'
'And if people actually like my stuff, how will I keep up with all the engagement and orders?'

 

Dear hesitant Creative Like Me,

I hope this letter finds you well.

I completely understand how you feel.

I was running through the same thoughts when I started my clothing company boldsheep.com (@boldsheep) and when I started this very site.

'What if no one buys anything from me?'

'What if nobody reads or comments on my blog?'

And you know what?

Nobody did.

Nobody bought any shirts, nobody read my posts. Nobody was listening.

(And mom's don't count)

Even though I implicitly told myself I wouldn't, I made every mistake in the book.

Fffffff...

But here's the thing: It was worth it.

Every mistake, every problem, every failure has made me a better and more capable person. 

What if it doesn't work? It probably won't. Do it anyway.

Ask yourself, 'would I rather try and fail or would I rather not try and be exactly where I am now?'

Failure is not an end-point, rather a turning point. It's Life telling you that your idea needs some reworking and tuning.

What about this worked and what didn't? What can I change to earn more engagement? How can I do this better next time? Okay that sucked. What went wrong, and how can I avoid it?

The biggest lesson I can give you about starting something is its okay to fail.

If your idea doesn't work. Keep going. Keep pursuing your dream.

Every good endeavor needs to be honed and crafted.

Reinvent, rework, redesign, pivot, tweak, ask, hone, step back, leap, tack, sprint, redefine..

Do whatever you have to make your idea and yourself better.

And if you must start over with a new idea, take what you learned on your last project and use it to your advantage on your next one.

When it comes to building an audience, focus on helping one person. Focus your efforts on impacting just one person who's your ideal customer / client.

Because each additional follower count you gain is a person on the other end. Someone you might be able to impact.

 

'And if people actually like my stuff, how will I keep up with all the engagement and orders?'

That's a good problem to have. It means what you're doing is working and having an impact.

Stay honest. Ask for help. Let your audience know. Remember, Vulnerability is Relatability.

Things to note and live by:

  • Every single person who made something wonderful started where you are — at the beginning.

On the ground. figuring out things. failing forward. stepping out of their comfort zones.

  • Continuous action creates continuous opportunities.

what you do will have create far greater value to you than what you don't do.

  • No is better than maybe. 

Don't rely on a maybe. Don't let your life be controlled by 'some day i will...'

Everything that you want to do, is still in your head, not on the page. And what you should or could do won't get you anywhere you want to go. 

Everything you can do will change your life for the better if you decide to act on it.

  • Train yourself to think of the positive possibilities, instead of the negative outcomes. 
  • In the end, all the setbacks, frustrations and pains are worth it.

Just because you might fail, doesn't justify saying no to the good you'll give to the world if you say yes instead.

I personally believe you are capable of making your dream a reality.

you should too. Once you do, you'll be on your way.

Remember, today is the best day to start.

I hope this helps you, if it doesn't I'll try again.

#KeepPursuing, Don't Quit Your Day Dream — Josh Waggoner | Feb 3rd 1.30PM EST, Chattanooga TN | Updated Fed 6th

 

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